Quote7. Its fate is to be gradually allowed to be decathected [decathect: to withdraw one's feelings of attachment from (a person, idea, or object), as in anticipation of a future loss], so that in the course of years it becomes not so much forgotten as relegated to limbo. By this I mean that in health the transitional object does not 'go inside' nor does the feeling about it necessarily undergo repression. It is not forgotten and it is not mourned. It loses meaning, and this is because the transitional phenomena have become diffused, have become spread out over the whole intermediate territory between 'inner psychic reality' and 'the external world as perceived by two persons in common', that is to say, over the whole cultural field.
QuoteAt this point my subject widens out into that of play, and of artistic creativity and appreciation, and of religious feeling, . . . etc.